Here Are Signs That He Doesn’t Want To Be With You

You  might like a particular guy but the way he responses to you might get you thinking on whether he wants to be with you or not. Here are five signs to look for and if you notice any of them, he doesn't want to be with you.


1. You’ve Never Met any of His Friends.

And, no, running into him at the dining hall and having him reluctantly introduce you to his roommate for two seconds does not count. If he is serious with you he’s definitely going to introduce you to his best bros beforehand. “his friends’ opinions are really important to him, so, if he is going to be dating someone, he want to make sure they meet her, “But if he don’t really care about the girl, he don’t really care about her meeting his friends.” If you haven’t met his friends yet, suggest that you all get together one night. If he seems reluctant, it might be a red flag.


2. He Only Calls You after 2 A.M

Yes, this seems like an obvious one, but it’s shocking the excuses we make for a guy when we like him, isn’t it? It’s true that college is a crazy busy time and occasionally the only time that works for you two to see each other might be into the wee hours of the night, but it shouldn’t be every time. Let’s face it — no one is busy every minute of every day, right up until 2 a.m. on a Friday night. “Even if he just had an hour between work and class, if serious with you, he’d want to see her and would do everything he could to see you.

3. The Deepest Thing You Know about Him is that He has a Sister, but You don’t even Know her Name.

Sure, you spend tons of time together and, yeah, you’re always talking, but about what? If your conversation isn’t going much deeper than your favorite episode of The Office, then you might need to reevaluate the situation. Think about it in terms of your friendships. Who do you value more: your girlfriends who you can tell literally any and every secret to, or your girlfriends who you meet for coffee once every other week to talk about internships and the weather? If you guys have been hooking up for a while and he’s still only interested in keeping the conversation light, it could be a sign that he’s not interested in making you his girlfriend.

4. He Disappears for Weeks at Time and then acts like nothing ever happened.

Things will be going great with a guy — you’re texting consistently, hanging out often, and Facebook chatting daily — when all of a sudden he goes totally off the map. It would be an impressive magic trick if it weren’t so annoying and utterly confusing. Do people get busy and overwhelmed, especially in college? Absolutely. A man even when he’s crazy stressed, he’ll make time for a girl he cares about even if it was right before finals he let her know that the next few weeks were going to be crazy, but make sure to figure out times you could hang out. Seeing her is the highlight of his stressful week!

5. He tells You Point Blank that he doesn’t want to be Your Boyfriend.

Hearing those words can be a blow to your confidence, but they are ultimately a blessing in disguise. Don’t see a clear rejection as an opportunity to Jedi mind trick a guy into liking you — see it as a chance to move on from a situation without any questions starting with “what if.”

If you’ve been seeing a guy for a few months and you’re not sure if he wants to be serious, just ask him, If he hesitates at all, he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend.” Remember: you want a guy that jumps at the chance of being “In a Relationship” with you, not someone you tricked into being your boyfriend after months of guessing games. Sure, all the above things are annoying and potentially selfish on their part, but if you keep giving him chance after chance after chance, you can only share the blame for your heartache if it doesn’t work out. After all, there definitely is a guy out there who wants to hang out with you when the sun is out and won’t wait three weeks to do so.


Source:  Maladit